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- Mark your calendar. Note dates of holiday parties, concerts and programs you plan to attend at your children’s schools, your church, your workplaces and your social clubs. Decide on parties you plan to give, and contact professionals who might assist. Add other favorite holiday events, such as Christmas craft fairs, a Nutcracker ballet performance, a Handel’s Messiah singalong concert or a designer show house.
- Save the date. Are you planning to host Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Christmas, Kwanzaa or a New Year’s party? Write up invitation lists and contact people you hope will attend.
- Think turkey. If you’re cooking for Thanksgiving and will roast a fresh turkey, order one now from your grocer.
- Write out your gift lists. Set your holiday gift budget. Create a list of everyone you want to buy or make gifts for. Collect your family members’ wish lists and distribute to relatives who need shopping ideas.
- Share the news. Update your holiday card mailing or email list. Choose or set up a family photo for your holiday card or newsletter. Order or buy Christmas cards. If you send out a newsletter, start writing up the highlights of your year.
- Organize your gift wrap. Take an inventory of your gift-wrapping supplies. Buy or make gift wrap, ribbons and bags.
- Get an early start. Start your shopping now to take advantage of sales, get the best selection and beat the crowds. To save time later (and prevent the curious from uncovering gifts), wrap presents as you go.
- Be a good guest. Buy or make host gifts to take to holiday gatherings.
- Extend a hand. Do you take on any special volunteer duties or do any charitable giving during the holiday season? Consider contacting a soup kitchen or shelter to see how you can contribute to people in need.
Week Before Thanksgiving
- Get your house in order. Clean your house, paying special attention to any rooms guests will spend time in, including living areas, bathrooms, guest bedrooms and the kitchen.
- Make it cozy. Arrange your furniture for entertaining and add seasonal touches to your living areas and porch. Make sure your fireplace is in good working order and you’re stocked with firewood if you plan to use your fireplace during the holidays.
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- Take it outside. Sweep, rake and clean up your porch, patio and yard. Freshen up your outdoor decor with fall containers and a door wreath.
- Get ready for guests. If you will be hosting overnight visitors, prep the guest room and check your bed linens, towels and other necessities to make sure everything is in good shape. Clear out space in closets or drawers for guests to store their things.
- Plan your menus. Decide what you will cook for Thanksgiving and other holiday meals. Write out shopping lists.
- Stock up. Check your pantry and buy any needed nonperishables, including wine and spirits.
Thanksgiving Week
- Shop. Buy perishables, saving salad fixings for a day close to the meal. Purchase floral arrangements and plants. Pick up your fresh turkey.
- Defrost. If you’ll be cooking a frozen turkey, pick it up and start defrosting it, allowing 24 hours for every 4 to 5 pounds.
- Cook and bake. Start prepping food, cooking and baking.
- Prep the table. Iron your tablecloth and napkins. Ready your candles and centerpiece.
Day Before Thanksgiving
- Buy last-minute food items. Do any last grocery shopping.
- Cook. Chop vegetables and cook anything else that can be prepared in advance.
- Set the table. Lay out place settings for your Thanksgiving table and put the finishing touches on decor.
Thanksgiving Day
- Finish cooking. Get the turkey into the oven, make salads and whipped cream, and cook potatoes, yams and vegetables.
- Set the scene. Light fires and candles, put out beverages, prepare coffee and get ready to welcome your guests.
- Enjoy the meal. When everything is on the table, give thanks and celebrate.
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Day After Thanksgiving
- Ready, set, shop. If you like sales and don’t mind crowds, get up early and head to the stores for Black Friday shopping. Or do your shopping online.
- Recover. Clean up after your Thanksgiving celebration and prepare your home for the rest of the holiday season.
Weekend After Thanksgiving
- Look at your holiday decor. Unpack your holiday decorations — tree lights, ornaments, wreaths, garlands, Advent calendar, crèche, stockings, door decor, exterior lights, yard scenes — and see what needs to be replaced and where you have gaps to fill. If you like to get your decorations up early, you can start putting them up now or hire a contractor, lighting specialist or other home pro to do it for you. Buy replacements or schedule time to make decorations.
- Make the connection. Start writing, addressing and mailing out your holiday cards and letters.
Monday After Thanksgiving Weekend
- Buy gifts online. Plant yourself at the computer on Cyber Monday to take advantage of online holiday shopping deals.
Early December
- Get in the spirit. Put up your exterior decorations, yard lights and decor.
- Freshen up. Replant your container pots with seasonal plants.
- Put up your tree. Buy and trim your Christmas tree.
- Decorate the rest. Put up other holiday decorations and lights in your living areas.
- Tune up. Create holiday music playlists to enjoy throughout the month.
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- Fill the pantry. Restock your cupboards and liquor cabinet for holiday parties. Order your holiday ham or turkey.
- Look ahead to Hanukkah. If you celebrate the Jewish Festival of Lights, plan and put together your menus, table, music, decor and activities, confirm guests and shop for gifts.
Mid- to Late December
- Socialize. Set up your bar cart, prepare a few appetizers and throw a holiday party. If you’re not up for a large gathering, invite over a few good friends for an evening of conversation or board games.
- Make a sweet scene. Get kids into the holiday fun with a cookie-baking or gingerbread-house-making session. Or invite over neighbors or friends who like to bake.
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- Observe Hanukkah. Prepare for and enjoy the eight days of Hanukkah with your family and guests.
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- Prepare for guests. Clean up the house in anticipation of Christmas celebrations. If you will be hosting overnight guests and you didn’t already do it in November, get guest rooms in order and check your bed linens, towels and other necessities to make sure you have enough and everything is in good shape. Clear out space in closets or drawers for guests to store their things.
- Plan the meal. Finalize your Christmas menu and make a shopping list.
- Stock up. Check your pantry and shop for nonperishables. Closer to Christmas, buy perishables and floral decor.
- Defrost. Start defrosting a frozen turkey, allowing 24 hours for every 4 or 5 pounds.
- Bake. Do your holiday baking. If you can swing it, prepare your pie crusts ahead of time and freeze them.
- Prep the table. Iron your tablecloth and napkins. Ready your candles and centerpiece.
Day Before Christmas Eve
- Shop. Buy your perishables. Pick up your turkey or ham if you ordered a fresh or cooked one.
- Make the food. Prep and cook everything that can be made in advance.
- It’s a wrap. Finish wrapping your presents and put everything under the tree.
- Capture the moment. Charge the batteries in your camera, video recorder and smartphone. Put someone in charge of taking pictures and video.
Christmas Eve
- Hit the stores. Do any last-minute shopping for food, drinks or presents.
- Prep, cook and bake. Prep as much food today as possible. If you’re hosting Christmas Eve dinner, start cooking early in the day.
- Finishing touches. Set your Christmas Eve or Christmas table.
Christmas Day
- Recycle and reuse. Have bags ready to gather up discarded gift wrapping paper and ribbons.
- Cook. Cook or roast your meat, poultry or fish, make salads and whipped cream, and cook potatoes and vegetables.
- Celebrate. Enjoy your Christmas gatherings and religious services with family and friends.
Week After Christmas
- Get moving. After the festivities are over and guests are gone, give your kitchen and living spaces a good tidying up. Help children assemble presents, install batteries and find places to put new items. Return presents early in the day to beat the crowds. Write thank-you notes. Send any last holiday cards, or start now if you haven’t sent them yet.
- Relax and reflect. Take time to think about the year that was and the year ahead. Spend quality time with loved ones.
- Give a little more. Make charitable contributions before the end of the year.
- Celebrate Kwanzaa. Decorate, light candles and involve family members in activities highlighting the seven principles of Kwanzaa for seven days starting the day after Christmas. On the sixth day (New Year’s Eve) host a feast, and on the seventh exchange gifts.
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New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day
- Keep the party going. Are you hosting guests for New Year’s Eve or New Year’s Day? Plan your menus, restock your pantry and bar cart, refresh your decor and buy or make party favors.
- Raise a glass. Get your new year off to a great start with people you enjoy. Toast the good times and make plans for new adventures.
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